From understanding what the common signs & symptoms are to the products that may help, consider this your guide to the menopause
Women entering perimenopause and menopause can often experience a number of changes – some for the first time. From a lowered sex drive and hot flushes to difficulty sleeping and vaginal dryness, going through the menopause can be quite the rollercoaster. It’s important to recognise that these signs and symptoms are completely normal and are a reflection of the life changes you’re going through. Equally, you might find that these signs and symptoms barely affect you at all. And this is also OK – we’re all different – but it pays to be as clued up as possible, so that should you find yourself suddenly experiencing changes to how you normally feel, you’re aware of what it could be and how to approach it.
If you’re currently experiencing one, two or a few menopause signs and symptoms, worry not, because we’ve pulled together an A-Z guide to everything menopause to help you navigate this life stage.
And if menopause symptoms are heavily impacting your daily life, it’s worth speaking to your GP or you might want to consider visiting the Boots Online Doctor Menopause & HRT Treatment service*, which can provide advice and access to hormone replacement therapy (HRT) treatment where appropriate.
*Access to prescription-only medicine is subject to an online consultation with a clinician to assess suitability. Subject to availability. Eligibility criteria and charges apply.
Your A-Z guide to menopause signs & symptoms (& what may help)
Anxious thoughts
Anxious thoughts and menopause can go hand in hand. Try mindfulness and relaxation techniques to help you feel a little more zen. Breathing techniques and meditation can be great options when it comes to calming a racing mind. Why not try a Headspace Health gift card for six months of meditation for the mind and body? You’ll also find a wide range of mental health resources at the Boots Mental Health Hub**. In the meantime, certain herbal remedies aimed at relieving mild anxiety can also help, but it’s important to remember they can have different effects on different people. Make sure you get some advice from your GP or a pharmacist, especially if you're taking prescribed medicines that may interact with herbal remedies.
Bladder weakness
If you’re experiencing some bladder weakness, try to remember that you’re not alone and that it can be a normal part of the menopause. Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles can be helpful. Try the following exercise: sit comfortably and squeeze the muscles 10 to 15 times, remembering to not hold your breath or tighten your stomach, bottom or thigh muscles at the same time. Try to do this three to four times a day.
Bloating
Digestive changes can be a common symptom of the menopause. Help beat the bloat by keeping your mouth closed when chewing food (and chewing it well), eating little and often and trying to avoid fizzy drinks.
However, consider seeing your GP if you’ve been feeling bloated for three weeks or more, you’ve tried changing your diet but keep feeling bloated, you have a swelling or lump in your tummy, you have bloating along with being sick, diarrhoea, constipation, weight loss or blood in your poo or you find it difficult to move or do daily activities because you’re bloated.
Consider: Boots Wind Relief Tablets
- 36 tablets
If you’ve ruled out other potential causes of your wind and bloating, you might want to consider these wind relief tablets to provide a helping hand. These tablets contain a wind reliever and antacids, which can be used to relieve bloating and the pain of trapped wind. Always read the label.
Body odour
With the menopause often comes hot flushes, which can mean more sweating and, sometimes, body odour. Ways to help prevent this from happening include changing clothes daily and sticking to wearing light, airy fabrics, such as cotton.
Brain fog
Feeling fuzzy? Brain fog can be a sign of the menopause. Be sure to get enough sleep and consider writing a to-do list to help keep the pressure off. If you have concerns or it's impacting your daily routine, then speak to your GP.
Consider: Boots Good Gut Live Friendly Bacteria + Mental Focus Support
- 30 capsules
- No artificial colours, flavours or preservatives
- Dairy free
- Vegan
These contain pantothenic acid, which supports normal mental performance, as well as zinc, which supports normal cognitive function, while vitamin B6 supports normal psychological function.
Change in skin texture
Reduced oestrogen can affect the appearance of your skin, making it look thinner and more crêpe-like. Regularly moisturising, eating healthily and avoiding smoking may offer a helping hand. And always use a daily SPF after your moisturiser to further help protect delicate skin.
Try: Boots Skin Edit Brightening Serum with Vitamin C
- Size: 28ml
- Recycle carton
- Recycle bottle, but remove pump
Need a complexion boost? This specialised menopausal skin serum is bursting with vitamin C, which is great for helping to brighten and make skin look more evenly toned and smooth. Follow with an SPF – even when it’s grey and cloudy outside.
Changes to breasts
During the menopause, you may notice changes to breast shape and size. In some cases, breast changes can be down to something else, so it’s important to speak to your GP if you experience any changes as they can rule out any other underlying cause. You may also notice more sagging around this area. As we get older gravity can take its toll, but it’s important to remember it’s just part of the natural ageing process. Being kind to yourself is key here, but if this is really knocking your confidence, then booking in with a personal trainer to get advice on toning chest workouts may be helpful. A personal trainer can also advise on an exercise regime that meets your specific needs. And never rule out the transformative power of a great, supportive bra! Getting yourself re-measured may be just the trick for boosting confidence.
Changes to PMS symptoms
As your hormone levels change, you may find you struggle with worsening premenstrual syndrome (PMS) during perimenopause. Taking gentle, regular exercise can help but see your GP if you’re concerned.
Consider: Boots PMS Relief Agnus Castus Tablets
- 30 tablets
You might want to consider these tablets to help relieve symptoms of PMS. This traditional herbal medicinal product is used to help relieve the symptoms associated with premenstrual syndrome, such as irritability, mood swings, breast tenderness, bloating and menstrual cramps, exclusively based upon long-standing use as a traditional remedy. Always read the label.
Depression
Feeling blue? You might experience mood changes as a result of menopause. However, depression is a more serious condition, where a very low mood is more constant for longer periods of time. Menopause may lead to an increased risk of depression, so it’s important to seek help from your GP if you’re struggling with your mental health. You can also turn to the Boots Online Doctor Depression and Anxiety Treatment service*, which can provide tailored treatment and support to help you start feeling like yourself again.
*Access to prescription-only medicine is subject to an online consultation with a clinician to assess suitability. Subject to availability. Eligibility criteria and charges apply.
Dizziness
Feeling dizzy could be a sign of the menopause, due to low oestrogen and/or increased anxiety, as well as hot flushes. Drinking plenty of fluids may help and if you continue to experience feelings of dizziness, seek advice from your GP to rule out any other potential underlying cause.
Dry eyes
The increase in screen time is making dry eyes more common for everyone – no matter your age – but some women have reported experiencing dry eyes during the menopause too. Reducing your screen time may be helpful and you could consider using lubricating eye drops regularly throughout the day, keeping on hand for whenever dryness strikes.
Dry skin
Hormonal changes can often result in a drier complexion. It’s important to moisturise regularly to keep skin feeling smooth and supple, from top to toe, and drink plenty of water throughout the day to keep hydrated.
Try: Vaseline Intensive Care Mature Skin Rejuvenation Body Lotion
- Size: 400ml
- Contains micro-droplets of Vaseline Jelly
Formulated for mature and ageing menopausal skin, this rich moisturiser contains nourishing vitamin B3 for softer, healthier-looking limbs.
Fatigue
Night sweats, disrupted sleep and brain fog can all leave you feeling tired during the daytime. Good sleep hygiene may help increase the chances of a better night’s sleep, so try going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, and avoid exercising too late in the evening.
Consider: Wellwoman 50+
- 30 tablets
- Suitable for women aged 50 years and over
- Suitable for vegetarians
Feeling tired during the day can lead to a decrease in energy levels. Try to eat a varied, balanced diet that includes lots of green, leafy vegetables, beans and pulses, nuts and oily fish. You can also consider trying this supplement, which contains complex B vitamins including folic acid, niacin (vitamin B3) and pantothenic acid (vitamin B5) to help maintain and support energy levels.
Feeling cold
Hot flushes one minute, feeling cold the next… can we catch a break? While HRT may be a useful option to consider, if you do get a case of the chills regularly, try exercising to warm up, layering up and wearing bed socks.
Gastro issues
Gastrointestinal issues can be a symptom of the menopause (see the previously mentioned bloating), including diarrhoea and indigestion. It’s not always easy to make the link between changes to your gut and the menopause, but symptoms tend to range from bloating and heartburn to wind, reflux and diarrhoea. Your bowels may also become irregular or you could suffer from constipation. Creating a food diary to pinpoint your triggers can be helpful and any change in bowel habits should be discussed with your GP initially. Setting aside proper time to eat, and chewing slowly may also help.
Headaches
Find you’ve started suffering from headaches as you enter the menopause? We feel you. If you are experiencing them regularly or for the first time, speak to your GP who can rule out any underlying causes initially. If you think they might be migraines (these tend to be one-sided headaches and are moderate to severe), see your GP or you may want to consider the Boots Online Doctor Migraine Service.*
*Access to prescription-only medicine is subject to an online consultation with a clinician to assess suitability. Subject to availability. Eligibility criteria and charges apply.
Hot flushes
Hot flushes are one of the more common symptoms of the menopause. Help beat the heat by finding your triggers, wearing layers that can be easily taken off, eating a healthy diet and managing your weight, as some studies show that overweight or obese women can reduce the severity of their hot flushes by losing weight.
It is also worth enquiring about HRT – discuss with your GP or via the Boots Online Doctor Menopause & HRT Treatment* as HRT can be an effective treatment for hot flushes.
*Access to prescription-only medicine is subject to an online consultation with a clinician to assess suitability. Subject to availability. Eligibility criteria and charges apply.
Try: No7 Menopause Skincare Instant Cooling Mist
- Size: 100ml
- Co-created with menopausal women
Keep your cool with this rejuvenating facial mist, which contains moisturising glycerine and refreshing rose water. What a treat!
Irregular periods
Changes to your periods and irregular periods can be a sign of perimenopause or menopause, but if your periods are getting particularly longer and heavier than usual, speak with your GP.
Irritability
We can be irritable at the best of times, but with the menopause can come a whole new level of frustation. Taking time to switch off, breathing exercises and going for walks may help. Or, if you feel your symptoms worsening or it gets overwhelming, speak to your GP.
Try: Radox 12H Scent Touch Stress Relief Bath Soak
- Size: 500ml
Instead of taking out your frustrations on those around you, get away from it all and indulge in some self-care, starting with a soak in the tub! This Radox bath soak has a soothing scent of rosemary and eucalyptus, plus a blend of 13 relaxing herbs. Simply pour a generous amount under running bathwater and take time out to relax.
Joint pain
Many women find their joints become stiff and painful during perimenopause and menopause. This can be due to fluctuating hormone levels, particularly oestrogen. If the menopause is affecting your joints, try easing tension via a relaxing bath or a massage. You could also consider supplements, such as Boots Joint Assure 50+ Tablets, which contain vitamin C to support normal collagen formation, plus vitamin D, which helps maintain healthy bones and muscles.
Lack of motivation
Lack of motivation could be an indication of low mood, another common feeling associated with the menopause. It’s important to remember it’s OK not to be OK, and to take the time out you need to rest and recuperate. That said, always speak to your GP if you feel things are getting on top of you.
Try: Clinique Happy Body Wash
- Size: 200ml
- Can be used as a foaming bath soak
While we know a body wash won’t solve all our woes, there’s something to be said for an invigorating scent. This luxurious number contains refreshing citrus notes – perfect for giving a little boost in the morning or for whenever we need it.
Kidney stones
A study by Harvard Medical School has revealed that you could be at an increased risk of developing kidney stones postmenopause – potentially caused by changes in bone metabolism. Small kidney stones are unlikely to cause many symptoms, but larger ones can cause a pain in the side of your tummy, a high temperature, feeling sick and blood in your urine. Visit your GP for further advice if you have concerns.
Loss of confidence
It’s completely normal to feel less confident during the menopause, thanks to hot flushes, tiredness, mood swings and possibly weight gain. Find out more about how to look after your mental health during menopause in our guide and visit your GP if you’re struggling. They may be able to refer you to talking therapies, such as cognitive behavioural therapy. You’ll also find a wide range of mental health resources at the Boots Mental Health Hub.**
Loss of sex drive
Sex drive not what it used to be? Consider sex counselling, which could provide you with the tools to help, talking to your GP about whether HRT might be right for you or booking in with Boots Online Doctor Menopause and HRT service*.
*Access to prescription-only medicine is subject to an online consultation with a clinician to assess suitability. Subject to availability. Eligibility criteria and charges apply.
Consider: Lovehoney First Time Fun 4 Piece Vibrator Starter Kit
- Classic vibrator - Insertable length: 6.5 inches | Circumference: 4.25 inches
- Egg vibrator - Insertable length: 2.5 inches
- G-Spot vibrator - Insertable length: 6 inches
While a vibrator won’t solve the potentially more deep-seated issues behind a low sex drive, indulging in a little bit of ‘you time’ can help you feel more in touch with what your body wants and needs.
Mood swings
Feeling great one minute and down the next? Incorporating relaxation exercises into your day, whether through meditation or yoga, may help, as can talking to others about how you feel. Consider speaking to your GP if things get overwhelming as they can provide further help and advice on how to cope.
Consider: Bach Rescue Remedy Spray – Comfort & Reassure Flower Essences
- 20ml
- Do not spray into your throat or eyes
Use this spray to help comfort and reassure, and when you feel you need some extra support in times of emotional demand. Simply bring the spray nozzle up to your mouth and apply two sprays onto your tongue. Repeat as often as required.
Muscle aches
Help combat muscular aches by staying hydrated, keeping active (taking time to stretch), getting a restful night’s sleep and maintaining a healthy weight.
Consider: Voltarol Back and Muscle Pain Relief Gel 1.16%
- Size: 100g
- Do not use for more than seven days
If you’re dealing with mild to moderate muscle pain, we feel you. Consider using this pain relief gel, which contains diclofenac diethylammonium. Use a small amount and rub gently into the skin over the affected site to relieve muscle pain. Always read the label.
Nail changes
Some women have reported changes to their nails during the menopause. If you’re noticing they’re becoming more brittle, try a nourishing hand cream, stay hydrated and wear gloves when cleaning. It’s the small changes that can make a big difference.
Consider: Boots Skin, Hair & Nails
- 90 capsules
- Free from artificial flavours and preservatives
- Lactose-free
A supplement containing zinc can be helpful when it comes to keeping nails healthy as zinc contributes to the maintenance of normal nails, skin and hair. This one contains zinc, along with selenium, vitamin B12 and biotin.
Nausea
Feeling queasy? Nausea can be an unfortunate symptom of the menopause that some women may experience. If things are getting too much, visit your GP for further advice.
Night sweats
Some women may experience sweating during the night as they go through the menopause (in addition to the delightful hot flushes they experience during the day). Ensuring good sleep hygiene can help, such as keeping a stable sleep schedule and following a relaxing pre-bed routine, and wearing lightweight nightwear made of breathable fabrics, such as cotton. During the day, avoid alcohol, spicy foods and caffeine.
Osteoporosis
According to the NHS, some women can lose bone density rapidly in the first few years after the menopause. Women are also more at risk of osteoporosis than men, especially if menopause begins before the age of 45 or they’ve had their ovaries removed. Seek the advice of your GP if you have any specific concerns about loss of bone density and consider taking a daily supplement containing 10 micrograms of vitamin D all year round (this is the daily recommended amount for all adults to take during autumn and winter also), as the vitamin helps your body absorb calcium. This is why you should aim to include foods rich in calcium and vitamin D in your diet. And consider introducing some weight bearing or resistance training into your weekly activities to help keep bones as strong as possible. Lifestyle changes, such as giving up smoking and avoiding alcohol, might also help.
Panic disorders
Menopause causes changes to our body that can lead to feelings of panic, possibly for the first time. This is when our internal alarm system is very sensitive and goes off when there is no danger. The NHS recommends relaxation techniques, such as indulging in a warm bath, breathing exercises or practising yoga. But visit your GP if you feel you need extra support. You can also visit the Boots Mental Health Hub,** which can assist you with various coping strategies.
Reproduction
As we get older, fertility levels naturally reduce and begin to drop significantly as you approach menopause. If you are experiencing early menopause (when a woman’s periods stop before the age of 45), are perimenopausal or have any concerns about reproduction, we suggest you seek advice from your GP to discuss your options.
Sensitive skin
Skin can become more sensitive when we hit the menopause. Investing in soap-free shower gels, or products specifically made for sensitive skin can be helpful here.
Sleep issues
Struggling to get some shut-eye? We feel you. Investing in a good sleep routine and avoiding caffeine in the afternoon may help you get those ZZZs, as well as addressing any other menopausal signs and symptoms that might be hindering your ability to sleep.
Try: Botanics Peaceful Night Pillow Mist Lavender & Sweet Marjoram
- Size: 100ml
- 100% post-consumer recycled (PCR) bottle
This blissful spray helps you prepare for a peaceful night’s sleep, thanks to the soothing blend of lavender and sweet marjoram essential oils. Sweet dreams!
Sore breasts
It’s always worth seeing your GP if you’re experiencing sore breasts to rule out any potential underlying cause. In the meantime, consider lifestyle tweaks, such as getting remeasured to ensure your bra is the best fit possible and gentle massaging may also help.
Taste & smell alters
Menopause can cause a reduction in saliva, which alters your sense of taste and smell. If you’re worried about changes to your taste and smell, seek medical advice from your GP or dentist. Other things that may help include maintaining basic dental hygiene, chewing gum, artificial saliva pastilles and sprays, and avoiding certain foods, especially hot, spicy, salty or crunchy foods.
Thinning hair
If you’ve noticed your strands becoming thinner, don’t worry as you’re not alone. It happens to many women during the menopause and there’s always something you can do to help. A good starting point is minimising the heat you use on it to help reduce damage.
UTIs
Many women start to experience bladder problems during the menopause, including urinary tract infections. If you're experiencing pain, consider taking paracetatomol if it’s suitable for you, drink lots of water and avoid having sex while you have symptoms. Most UTIs resolve on their own within two to three days, but see your GP if symptoms haven’t resolved in this timeframe or are getting worse. You can also get access to advice and cystitis treatment via the Boots Online Doctor*.
*Access to prescription-only medicine is subject to an online consultation with a clinician to assess suitability. Subject to availability. Eligibility criteria and charges apply.
Vaginal dryness
Vaginal dryness, itching and irritation are common symptoms of the menopause, but you needn’t settle for feeling uncomfortable. Opting for cotton underwear and choosing soap-free body washes may help. Boots Online Doctor Vaginal Dryness Treatment service* can also provide expert, confidential advice and access to treatment to help relieve menopause-related vaginal dryness.
*Access to prescription-only medicine is subject to an online consultation with a clinician to assess suitability. Subject to availability. Eligibility criteria and charges apply.
Consider: Boots Vaginal Moisturiser Gel
- Size: 30g
- Fragrance-free formulation
Vaginal dryness can lead to discomfort, itching and irritation, but help is at hand. This vaginal moisturising gel contains a derivative of hyaluronic acid, a natural moisturiser, which is known for its soothing and moisturising properties. Each application lasts up to three days.
Weight gain
You may find you experience weight gain during the menopause, which is due to lower levels of oestrogen. Ensure you are eating a healthy, balanced diet and aim for the NHS-recommend minimum 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week.
Xerostomia (aka dry mouth)
Some women report an irritating dry mouth during the menopause. Stopping smoking (if you do smoke), avoiding alcohol and drinking lots of water can help.
Yeast infections
It won’t come as any surprise that changing hormone levels can often equate to effects on your intimate health. While vaginal thrush after the menopause occurs less frequently than premenopause, due to decreasing levels of oestrogen, some studies have shown that postmenopausal women taking HRT are more prone to developing infections than women who are not. If you’re over 60, see your GP if you're experiencing symptoms of thrush to rule out any underlying cause. Preventative steps include wearing breathable, cotton underwear, wiping front to back and avoiding too hot baths. You can also visit your local pharmacist for advice on how to best treat symptoms.
Consider: Boots Dual Action Thrush & BV Pessaries
- Seven vaginal pessaries
These handy pessaries can be inserted into the vagina and may work as an effective treatment for fungal and bacterial vaginal infection, relieving irritation and discomfort, and helping to prevent the recurrence of symptoms. However, contact your GP if you’re unsure about your symptoms or if symptoms persist after using.
Spots
Some people may experience acne during the menopause. As well as eating and exercising well, and avoiding cleansing or exfoliating too much, you can speak to a Boots pharmacist in store or access the Boots Online Doctor Acne Treatment service online*. Here you can receive expert, confidential advice and access to treatment for mild to moderate acne if deemed appropriate.
*Access to prescription-only medicine is subject to an online consultation with a clinician to assess suitability. Subject to availability. Eligibility criteria and charges apply.
The takeaway
If our exhaustive list has shown us anything, it’s that all women are different and will experience the menopause in different ways. Some may experience only one or two (or no) symptoms and to a minor extent, whereas other women may experience more symptoms that may be severe, wide ranging and severely impact their daily lives. We know we’ve provided a lot of information and suggested a lot of products here, so if you’re considering using multiple products at a time, or want further clarification on specific ones, seek advice from your local pharmacist who will be happy to help. And our final piece of advice? Stay in tune with your body to better understand what’s going on, be kind to yourself and see your GP if you’re concerned or in need of extra support.